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THERE WILL EXIST A WELL-INFORMED, WELL-CONSIDERED, AND YET FERVENT PUBLIC CONVICTION THAT THE MOST DEADLY OF ALL POSSIBLE SINS IS THE MUTILATION OF A CHILD’S SPIRIT.
Other parents have found it wise to detail the holidays down to the days and times that the children will need to be exchanged.
The general outline is
A. Children want and need to see both parents during every holiday.
B. If possible Make agreements that give children the option to see both parents.
C. Even if those agreements change due to children's or parents' needs, it has been proven to be wise to have an agreement that gives children the right to see each parent.
D. Other parents have found it wise to not make agreements in which a parent might have to say "no you dont get to see me this Christmas". This gives the child the message they have no choice; their life is being dictated by others and is out of their control.
When children feel a lack of control, children tend to rebel behaviorally or suppress their feelings, thoughts, and ideas.
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